Me (F30) and DH (M30) have a great sex life, communication and connection is there. We both stopped watching porn about 7/8 years ago and sex went from emotionless (get the task done) to connected and present. However, in recent months we’ve started to have problems with premature ejaculation.
we have communicated about it, and a friend of ours suggested viagra, sildenafil. So we tried that however it doesn’t prevent the time by much. He actually then spends the majority of the time trying to slow down or change up positions to prevent it happening. Which then means we’re resorting to other measures to help me.
Does anyone have any advice? Has anyone been in this situation, or similar? We’re having sex on average 3/4 times a week.