Been with dp over a decade . When we bought a house 10 years there was always drama with his kids but thought it would calm down as teenager hormones. Instead it ramped up both did drugs , got arrested for assaults , last couple of years 27 daughter was in relationship with ex jailbird dealer who apparently turned a new leaf. Now dp wants to retire early and I am thinking I need to end this relationship while I still can get a mortgage in next ten years . He thinks I am being unreasonable and shouldn’t let his mad family affect our lives . Am I ? I wonder what happens when I get older .