Is it a dealbreaker if a guy your dating doesn’t go down on you

[jessb21]

If so why

I would have said before it wasn’t a deal breaker as when I was younger it was quite frowned upon in my circles and I had only met men that “didnt do it” but since I met a man that did I would now not live my life without it 😂 and wouldnt even sleep with a man that doesn’t do it now!

I’m not sure. Oral from a man who is bad at it or doesn’t know what he’s doing is horrendous.
But he could have an absolutely amazing big Willy. Which might make up for the lack of oral.

I do think that the guys who are good in bed are good at oral, and love giving pleasure and showing off their skills. I think you’d have to consider the whole package, and whether this is just casual dating or looking for a life long partner.

It's part of the menu of things I like in bed.

It wouldn't necessarily be a dealbreaker if he wasn't into it, but if it was because he thought vulvas are gross, or if he expected oral himself but not to give, then it would be.

Yes. It was a factor in my last relationship ending. I have now realised that physical compatibility is a big priority for me and can’t be downplayed no matter how loving the guy.

I couldn't accept a relationship where he got oral and I didn't.

Also, there's just something off-putting about a man who doesn't want to do something that many men do with gusto.

Considering it’s the only way I orgasm during sex, yes it would be a deal breaker.

Only if it’s a problem. Not everyone enjoys oral sex, giving or receiving. That’s okay. If it’s a dealbreaker for you though, it’s a dealbreaker for you.

Just a question, but no responses so far from OP on such a personal topic.

Is that you, Daily Mail?