Went on a date last weekend & even though it went well he said he didnt think he was ready to date but could we be friends because we got along so well. I agreed. Didnt hear from him for a few days then today he pops up and after the usual "hi, how are you, how was your day etc" he said "you cant rely on me to message you all the time" I explained I dont expect him to message me all the time because as adults we both have busy lives. He then said "so if your in a relationship you dont do 50/50 messaging" again I explained "if I was in a relationship its different but we were not in one & that when it comes to friends & keeping in touch it varies. I message my 2 best friends a couple times a day & one friend I messaged a week ago & they still hadnt replied but it doesn't bother me because I know with jobs, families etc everyone gets busy" to which he replies "if your not going to chase after me, im not going to chase after you". Im slightly confused because he said he wasn't ready for a relationship & wanted to be friends but now hes going about me chasing him etc