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Is this ok ?

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summerxo · 07/02/2026 19:04

My fiancé and I have been in quite a bad place for a while. Stemming from previous multiple miscarriages, baby loss, our youngest son being premature and having health issues, money stress etc. We were having a conversation/argument and when I was talking he started shaking his head, raising eyebrows, putting his head in his hands and I said I’m not talking to you when your doing that. I found it really rude. So when I walked off he started mumbling something and all I said was what did you say he said nothing raising his eyebrows again. Baring in mind this is in front of both our kids (5&2). So I walked off again and I said your being rude and arrogant just stop and he got all frustrated and said ‘you c*’ so I threw my engagement ring at him. Am I in the wrong here or is your partner calling you that just disgusting no matter what the situation? His never said anything like that before and the fact he did it in front of the kids just makes me feel sick.
all my savings and money has gone into the house. We aren’t married so I really don’t know what I would do if I have to leave. Advice needed x

OP posts:
Thumbup · 08/02/2026 09:49

justtheotheronemrswembley · 08/02/2026 09:47

The OP didn't call her fiance a cunt AT ALL. That is why I was disagreeing with the pp saying that they were as bad as each other.

The Fiance called HER a cunt in front of the children.

Which makes his behaviour worse.

Get it now?

Ah yes apologies! Bit scared!

justtheotheronemrswembley · 08/02/2026 09:53

Thumbup · 08/02/2026 09:49

Ah yes apologies! Bit scared!

Sorry! 😂

Beepbeepbeepbeepbeepbeepbeep · 08/02/2026 14:34

justtheotheronemrswembley · 08/02/2026 09:47

The OP didn't call her fiance a cunt AT ALL. That is why I was disagreeing with the pp saying that they were as bad as each other.

The Fiance called HER a cunt in front of the children.

Which makes his behaviour worse.

Get it now?

I never his or her behaviour was worse than the other. I don’t think saying well he was worse than me is helpful at all in this situation. I said neither of them behaved in an acceptable manner.

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