There is a history of mother in law actively trying to destroy my marriage. She tried to get me deported from the country, she is overly obsessive over hubby calls him her number one man, used to lean on him for emotional support and protector. Very odd. Has said to my husband it’s my fault he fell out with his sister even when his sister has been verbally insultive to me and him. It’s only now he has set boundaries and stood up to her of course it’s my fault. She has called husbands friends half her age to say she’s concerned and misses her son. She didn’t talk to me at my bridal shower even though I invited her and hugged her on arrival.
anyway she keeps asking to see us and we keep putting it off due to all the hurt - I finally give in to see her. I don’t want to stop a mother seeing a son. Anyway she turns up and two cars pull up on my drive. She brings her brother and doesn’t care to let us know. I can’t help but think this is on purpose. When I said something I hear her say under her breath oh I thought it was a nice surprise didn’t know it was a f’in big deal. I said a couple of times it would have been nice to know because of food can you let us no next time. Is she testing my patience? I can’t help but think she’s going to show up to some event with the sister we aren’t speaking too next ….