Husbands Kik....

[Iknowdino]

husband is away for a week and I have got proof he is trying to cheat on me. At least with escorts (adultwork) and possibly Kik meet ups. I have gained access to his Kik and someone has just sent a message. Would I be insane to respond and ask who it is? Or pretend to be him and gain some further info. Or should I just accept it for what it is, log out and go from there. My issue is that I strongly suspect he is sharing private pictures of me and I would like to find out if possible.

Sounds like he’s definitely been sharing them to me and I think you have enough to go on to report him to the police already

Yes that was me last week. I had already started to make plans to leave before I found all this out so at least it has helped me to realise it's the right thing to do!

I mean it wasn't ideal prior to this but was generally ok. Haven't seen him or spoken to him since. Least I've got a few days before he is back to mull it over

Ffs stop talking about it and get him gone. He's a perv and is 100% betraying your relationship and, more importantly your trust. You deserve better, start the process right now

@pinkcheerios I find this a very aggressive response. Why assume I stayed/am staying? Why assume I'm some passive, weak-willed woman (?!) who would not act on such findings, with or without more evidence? And why assume that any children i might have (?) Would not be protected and safeguarded?

It would be nice if people could be nicer and more thoughtful if their responses. It takes a lot for people to post their personal shit on here, so can you maybe think about that before jumping down their throat