DH changing jobs

[DHchangingjobs]

Hello everyone

DH was found through linked in by another company. The job is a step up from what he is doing now- title and pay. He works in a niche job. He is however doing the same work and responsibilities at his current job on a much lower income. His current work place have been really supportive with family life and allowing him to be flexible. I have had severe health issues and they have been really good to both of us, however the pay is poor considering it’s a senior position.

The new job have offered him the same hours, with a pay of 49% more than his current wage plus bonus on top. DH said the new job came across as flexible and he doesn’t think there will be any problems at all. It’s also 5 minutes away from home rather than 50 minutes. He has decided to go for the new job which is amazing and I will support him.

Why am feeling so worried about the change?

Change is always difficult. With more money, you could now afford some extra help with caring for you if his job isn’t quite as flexible as it was before. He will be happier with a shorter commute so more time to be with you.

To me it doesn't sounds like there is anything to worry about it all sounds really positive.

On the surface it sounds like a win win situation.
I wonder if an element of your worry is that you feel it all seems too good to be true?
And also you quite rightly feel a degree of loyalty to his current employer because they have been supportive of your family.

It does sound as though the short commute and the extra money possibly allowing to get outside help if needed sounds a really positive outcome for you.

Thanks everyone.

@Placetobreathe yes I think you are right. It does feel too good to be true. I’m staying positive!

It’s more than likely he will be put on gardening leave so at least he will be home for a bit!

I hope it works out well for you OP.