Been with partner for 10 years and have a 7 year old son together.
Due to health issues and lack of child care, my partner and I have done very little in terms of dating and spending time with just the 2 of us since birth of our son.
We have discussed how our relationship is now feeling very boring and stale. We’re now going to try doing more as a couple but we no longer know how to date or what to do as a couple.
We tried to think what we used to do together before our son was born, it was things like going random day trips and cinema trips but child care doesn’t allow enough time for day trips and cinema is not going to allow us to enjoy each others company.
I had a look at one of those random date selector pack of cards but was things like climb a mountain, skiing, so not sort of things that most people would just decide to do one day