Hi all, I cheated on my girlfriend some time ago I’m aware of the moral implications and for that I’m regretful just as much as the next person when they’re caught or discovered. The back story is I kissed a younger woman on a night out ended up back at a friends house but by this time I’d realised I’d made a mistake and it went no further. I’m 34 and the woman I kissed was 23 my girlfriend isn’t so focused on the fact I was unfaithful but more the age difference, regularly calls me a predator, passes comments about young women when I’m around any, sometimes calls be a pedophile. I can see how this would lead to insecurity but are these comments justified? The irony is when she was 30 her 41 friend tried to kiss her and she kept it from me I only found out when I discovered a message from him apologising. When I asked her why she didn’t tell me she said because there was no harm done and he’d hurt no one, I can semi agree with that point however the age difference is identical.