I'm due to get married to my partner this year , at the moment it's alot of stressful wedding planning, looking after kids, keeping house okay, health problems so I'm not sure if I'm over reacting or justified in how I feel.
I had a school mum friend who I was close to for a while but she changed (drinking alot, recreational drugs, wasn't really putting kids first) and my partner said he didn't realy want me hanging with her which I agreed I didn't want to involve myself with them dramas, i still respected her and spoke to her i just couldnt hang around that while kids need me functioning and present. then not long ago he was at pub (goes once a fortnight) it was quiet so he said was coming home but then she turned up alone, then her friend came and friends boyfriend, thay then all spent evening together going from pub to pub, in my head is was like people would see that as I double date ( that most defo is overreaction I know) but I feel like no respect was given to me and neither of them said what they were doing until next morning he told me like it was nothing.
I've been so pissed about in but not sure if it's just the stress of lot if things all at once so close together.
How would you feel