Imbalanced marriage

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Morning

long time lurker here.

I need to understand how I can get more financial freedom and mutuality with my husband. We’ve been married a while but he won’t let me access much financial information and it’s all guarded by his personal accountant.

what can I do to encourage more financial mutuality? It’s a barrier in our relationship and I’m getting very frustrated.

xx

Thanks so much to everyone for support.i needed it as it’s lonely in this situation.

Knowledge is power.

Even if you're minted, you still need security in your own mind that things are ok.

I used to laugh and tell my DH I planned our marriage with the divorce in mind but 30 years later, all the things we did that were fair and equitable are really bloody useful, as it takes away the unease and reasons for disputes.