Hi im 44 and im looking for some advice. My partner 49 of 25 years gets really snappy with me. He calls me a jar, annoying swears and me. He never touch me or hurt me. But his mouth hurts my feelings. If I get teary and I told im told to fork off with playing the victim. He never comforts me. Worst thing is driving! I get a nervous wreck cos he tells me go this way or that way, park here if I miss something Im screamed at. On Monday I parked in a different spot he literally got out car walked off told me about my self I never raised my voice said if I keep doing this I can go dinner by myself. Then walked off said what are we doing. I went into the shop came out and was told to sort myself out. More or less asking me to apologise. I dont know what I did! should I have just parked where he told me not in space I found which was nearer. I feel so lonely. If i ask a question joking and one of our daughters goes er mum he jumps on it says I weird for even asking that. It be a normal question. We dont going abused where if I say I really want to go tl this place he says its shit. But if I don't like something he picks im told I shifted on it. I feel like im slowly going made I work long hours even weekend I responsible for everything housework. Cooking im struggling with depression and anxiety I have combined adhd and dont know what im doing wrong. I could do alot more in doors but I'm so low I judt want to sleep