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Does this sound dismissive?

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Milya · 09/01/2026 18:53

At work a colleague asked where my sister went to uni. I said “Oxford — she’s the smart one out of us two” (meant self-deprecating).

Later realised the colleague’s daughter went to the same uni as me. Now worrying it sounded like I was implying Oxford > LSE and therefore dismissing their daughter, even though I didn’t mention her at all.

AIBU to overthink this?

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Purlant · 09/01/2026 18:54

Definitely overthinking!!

GrealishGoddess · 09/01/2026 18:57

Yabu yes - quite apart from the fact LSE grads are likely smarter anyway

Milya · 09/01/2026 19:16

No I know, it was meant to be a silly dismissive comment aimed at myself. I do overthink often and it’s been a long week!

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LochSunart · 09/01/2026 21:03

Is this a humblebrag because you went to LSE?🤣

MrsTerryPratchett · 09/01/2026 21:05

Well stop being self-deprecating. It’s not a great way of communicating. I get that people think it’s humble and modest. But when you’ve gone to Oxbridge and LSE it comes across a bit, disingenuous is probably the euphemism.

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