So im looking for help/advice as I really dont know what to do. I split with my partner after 10 years. I dont know it its because it was over the Xmas period and I was just overloaded with stuff to do. As i would always have to plan what we're doing/eating at the weekend or xmas eve and new years day. He would expect me to buy food etc, prepare it and even tidy up while working full time and cleaning the house, and making sure my 11 year is ok (my child, not his) We both work full time. He would do the washing but that's it. If I needed anything else done he said "just to say" and he'll do it. Are all men like this? Can they not see that other things need done? I own the flat so certain things I'd rather do myself. He would always just sit on the sofa and be on his phone. He would never offer help. When I was upset or just burnt out i would sit in the bedroom to chill/calm down. Not once did he ask if im ok. If I did need any help with anything he would genuinely help and do it. I just dont know if im.being too picky or are men like that or is he an asshole.