I don't think he loves me anymore

[HeDoesnt]

Rather sadly (for me!) I don't think my partner loves me any more. He hasn't told me directly he loves me since before Christmas. In fact he hasn't really come near me at all. I have given up telling him I love him as honestly I don't want to know the answer I already know. The last time I said it he barely muttered it back.

How do you move on from the person you love no longer loving you?

I know I'll be ok and everything, I would rather he loved me though as I love him and I want our lives together to be forever.

Not necessarily true. He might just have a lot on his mind. Can you plan something fun to do together? Don’t keep asking him, it’ll drive him away. Focus on enriching your time together and if he keeps giving you the cold shoulder then you should leave with your head held high.

He does have a lot going on and yes there is a lot on his mind but I feel this is a big shift.

We have a weekend together just the two of us coming up but I'm not sure how well received it would be if I planned something. I've been told I over plan things so haven't done that for a long while now.

Is this a recent feeling that you've had or has it been going on for some time? How was it over Christmas? Do you live together?

I would ask him straight out, but then I'd rather know than be kept wondering and worrying. Wouldn't you rather know one way or the other?