Please don’t judge. I know that I made a mess of things but i am feeling so overwhelmed right now.
I broke up with my ex a few years ago but we never formally divorced. There were some reasons for this and we were both ok with it.
I changed my mind and asked for us to proceed with the official divorce proceedings and my ex agreed but he seemed a bit weird about it. I don’t really know why because this will make no difference to him what so ever.
He sent me a few messages now that make me wonder if he has been keeping tabs on my social media profiles, and it’s freaking me out a bit. I have been referring to my new partner as my financé. Until then he has been “ok” if this makes sense.
I really don’t want this to get awkward or to antagonise him, so I’m wondering there is anything I can do apart from increasing the security measures on my profiles that my ex shouldn’t even know about.
I just really want this divorce to get through and be done with it. Sorry just feeling overwhelmed with this mess.