Dissapointed with your sex life Part 4

[Branster]

We're here now!

I'm not depressed. Not exactly happy, but not depressed, but thank you for your concern.

I'm not sure that she is, again, she's just "not happy", and in a way that's more difficult to tackle, i don't know where to start - what makes me unhappy is her being unhappy, so i end up being pretty useless.

It's damage limitation now - i love her so very very much that i'm just trying not to make things worse, and as for how long, well, i can put up with it forever, if the alternative is losing her.

Maybe i should stop moaning, maybe i've lost that right by my choice.

well I think you should both sit down and have a good old heart to heart, if theres no cuddling in bed, how about you cuddling her/trying to hold her had or something when your in the house don't have to be in bed. I think the first effort needs to come from you. Maybe she's just stuck in a rut and doesn't realise how you feel, I never did with my DH. it can't be healthy for either of you thou. Will she hug you and cuddle on the sofa at least?

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excuse me, who's anonymouschap ????

forgot all about this thread!!!

SEX..... whats that??? doesn't that finish after you have reproduced??(untill you want another)

Please tell me if i'm wrong. Am i depriving DH ( oh i forgot, he's worse than me!!!)

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Ahaaaaaaaaa!!!
How's it going??!!

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cheers then!
doing OK at the moment.
nothing extaordinary re DH but i think that's the way it's going to be. at least after talking we seem closer but technically the physical side is the same. he tries more but it's still not what i really, really want. maybe in my mind i'm too demanding. who knows?
what about you?

Speaking as a woman who is totally off sex, in my case it is all to do with that I am so distant to DP due to the way he treats me. How can you have sex with someone you don't get on with 99% of the time? (DP is still up 4 it and can't understand why I am not - HELLO????!!) But thats my prob not yours. Your DW sounds like she needs something new and exciting in her life. May sound drastic but could a new start in a new house etc help??? Have been no help - sorry.

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what do you mean you miss her? are you not together anymore?

Has she ever said she wants to leave?

Annonchap. I assume you mean you miss being close to her and the intermacy. Have you told her just that? Life is not a rehearsal it's here and now don't waste it by not saying what you really want to say to the very person you should be able to say anything to. What got you together in the first palce? What was the spark- you can look for it again but you both need to be working together. She needs to tell you exactly what is going on in her head (even if it is painful to you)talk to her, talk and talk more. You sound so sad, you need to make something happen- you cannot go on so sad through life.

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Is there any chance of the two of you going away for the weekend without DS? Not to get romantic or sexy, just to try and get to know eachother again. When things are hard and you drift apart, it makes it hard to remeber what your partner enjoys doing. A weekend away could be the beginning of trying to sort out your problems, or simply just to remind her of why you both got together in the first place.

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sorry about your situation but no point flogging a dead horse

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