My partner and I don’t live together anymore after trust issues and other things like .we still do a lot as a family. For Christmas he asked what I wanted and I said I was unsure . He bought me a microwave because he said I needed a new one. 😳. Anyway he said he would get me a present I then said to him just before Christmas I would like a bag. The bag went in the sale so I have mentioned it a few times and he said jokingly I think? I won’t go word for word but basically sexual activity etc and you can have it. I said No that’s line you are buying me . He has said this many times since Christmaslast night when he left he said here’s the money . I said no it’s ok I did not want it thrown back in my face . Now I feel dud I do the right thing should I if then the money. Hr has been quite controlling in the past and I did want him to throw it back at me. Did I do the right thing. I will save up and buy it myself at done point.