I’ve been with my partner roughly 10 yrs, have a child together, but our relationship has been really up and down from the start. I won’t go into all the details but I’ve found myself thinking is this what I really want for myself the past few months now, though I do still love him, I’m feeling a little confused about how I feel about certain things in the relationship.
My main dilema at the minute is I’ve found myself really fancying a guy at work. Never spoken to him apart from the odd hi when we walk past each other, I’ve caught him looking at me a few times as well. I’ve started to make more of an effort with how I look when I go to work but when I’m at home I don’t care what I look like for my partner. I always look around and look into his office when I walk past to see if he’s in work that day and when I see him sometimes will purposely walk past him.
I don’t know if this is just a phase as I’m feeling a little unhappy in my relationship but I’m feeling really guilty and would be hurt if this was the other way around.
Does anyone think I should leave my relationship? Or has anyone else experienced this before?