LTR of 28 years. DS is home from uni and going to the pub with friends tonight - one of whom lives in the next village and I offered to give him a lift home at 10.30pm. My husband has gone mad at this - saying I am ruining our evening (we were going to watch a film at home - would have been finished way before 10pm), that I am a push over, that he is angry with my son for asking (he didn't - I offered with a strict time limit of 10.30pm). He told me I should be in bed before then go (??) we up generally around 10pm and read/look at laptops for 45 mins. Even said he wanted to go round to this boys house and have a go at his dad! Now, this other boy has an issue at home I am not fully aware of all details, and that does mean his parents never do lifts - but this is not the point. I offered without being asked! It wouldn't have interruped our evening - he lives 5 mins away, I wasn't having a drink tonight (and hubby doesn't drink at all). To the outside world my DH is very sociable and "lets me do anything" - and as I travel a lot for work and also do go away by myself (as does he) - you wouldn't see it - but he is really controlling sometimes and gets moody and guilt trippy if I don't do things he wants me to. I used to tread on eggshells around this but not don't. I am quite okay with him feeling I shouldn't do this (he can have his own opinion) - but the reaction is way over the top. He is now sat upstairs by himself.......I know it's a snapshot of one thing in our lives - but is this normal behaviour?