My partner has, in his mind, had a terrible year. I would agree with him, however, he's also had a great year too. I just don't think he can recognise that element at the moment.
He's become very negative and bitter about something which is now resolved. I have been supportive over the last 18 months listening to this issue and offering advice (when able) and emotional support. We're finally at the end and he is happy with the end result. He isn't happy about how long the issue took to resolve and it has clearly had a negative impact on him. I wish he could leave it in the past now and accept it is over but he can't.
I don't quite know how to raise this with him but he needs to talk to someone professional about it. It's now affecting my own wellbeing and I feel tense and stressed when it is raised. I also want to move on from it myself. I don't want to lose hours to this any more. I want us to enjoy our lives. I worry though I sound incredibly self centered and selfish.