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Unsure what to do?

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WillowTree100 · 24/12/2025 17:09

This was like a month ago but I’m unsure what to think / do as it’s been on my mind for quite a while

2 of my mates (let’s call them X and Y) were like let me look through ur phone but my mum kept ringing me so I had to silence her call and they both were like oh she’s hiding certain ppl and I was like no that’s not true.

Then X took my phone and went through my snap and I have 2 family guy friends that I’ve known since childhood and she went through all their chats and she was like oh they’re ur secret bfs stop lying to me and she went though my insta and WhatsApp too and was like who’s this man and I go that’s my brother and she was like I dont believe u
X found this number from the past I mean the from about 4 yrs ago but we werent even in an actual relationship and that number rang me back in March but that number isn’t saved as a contact no more so back the I rang back to see who it was and once I knew who it was I blocked him.

X rang it on her phone and he picked up and he was like oh who’s calling and she was tryna get him to say what his name was and he ended the phone call and I took my phone back and before that they went through my entire blocked contact list and I don’t know half of those numbers because they’re usually spam callers but X and Y kept accusing me of having a man.

so when the couldn’t find anything X was like if I don’t have a man I must have a girlfriend and that I’m hiding her and she kept accusing me of it.

I have no idea what prompted them to think like that when X first asked me she was like you keep smiling at your phone, I don’t like to assume stuff, what are you hiding from me?

Y didn’t do as much as her she kinda played along but X was asking all the questions and did all this and I’m wondering as to why she wants to know of my relationship status so much.

Please offer any advice you may have

Thank you

OP posts:
puzaru · 24/12/2025 17:21

Get new friends

gamerchick · 24/12/2025 18:12

Wtf have I just read?

Why are you letting people look through your phone and why are you explaining what's in there away?

WillowTree100 · 24/12/2025 18:35

gamerchick · 24/12/2025 18:12

Wtf have I just read?

Why are you letting people look through your phone and why are you explaining what's in there away?

Because they wouldn’t get off my back about whether I was dating someone or not and every contact I had X was suspicious about. She made up worst case scenarios such as me having secret boyfriends and girlfriends and how I’m a lesbian.

OP posts:
LadyMacbethssweetArabianhand · 24/12/2025 18:36

Who cares? Are you teenagers? If not, then you all need to grow up

Brefugee · 24/12/2025 18:36

Are you young? Learn to say no and lock your phone

Brefugee · 24/12/2025 18:37

Are you young? Learn to say no and lock your phone

YetAnotherAlias62 · 24/12/2025 18:44

It's the school holidays, isn't it....

JustWantsSomeSleep · 25/12/2025 17:45

This is nuts. Don't give your phone to people to look through. Don't give in so easily to peer pressure. Find better friends.

Arlanymor · 25/12/2025 17:47

They're not your friends, they are idiots.

CountingQuiche · 25/12/2025 17:55

Grow. Up.

Purplecatshopaholic · 25/12/2025 17:59

Oh come on, are you lot all about 12?! Seriously, grow up.

GloriaMonday · 25/12/2025 18:11

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