Honestly just what the title says.
I want a stable relationship and to have children in two or so years. I don't want to wait around any longer, but I'm having such difficultly finding a guy that shares that same goal.
Finding someone that in the first instance is actually a compatible partner and we get along well, share the same interests etc.
And then someone who wants a long term relationship. And then someone who wants children too (and children soon) seems to be unbelievably difficult. I'm fairly traditional, I suppose.
I've used the apps. I don't struggle hugely to get matches, and don't struggle hugely to get dates. But the last two guys have said (and I quote) on the first or second date, after talking themselves into a corner: "I should actually probably tell you I was married...or still am married, in the middle of a separation." Yeah so no thank you. The others don't want children. Or don't want a LTR. Or we just don't really get along.
I've joined classes, but maybe not the right ones.
Anyone have any suggestions? Thank you in advance.