What to do when someone who has sexually assaulted you stays in your life

[NoIDplease2025]

Not sure how to navigate things. I left my relationship and near the end there was what he refers to a consent fuck up. No one in the family knows anything ither than we parted ways. My adult autistic son chose to live wuth him. He is acting like we parted as great mates and I am being unreasonable and dramatic not wanting contact with him. I will need to drop my daughter off to him on Xmas day for a short time, she will be safe but will need support to go inside and I woukd like to hug my son on Xmas day but woukd rather not see him but think I will have to.

Have you got another adult that would go with you?

Oh lovely. That is so hard.

Is there someone you can bring to support you?

I’m so sorry this has happened to you op x

my exh did this to me. My dsis literally moved in with me when I left as I didn’t feel safe. And she was there when I had to face him for our dc drop offs etc until I felt able to do it alone/sorted it so I didn’t have to face him.

do you have anyone who could help you this way? X

Thank you. I will see if anyone is around. I suspect everyone will be busy wuth their own families and no one knows, he just looks like an amazing guy who is being super kind and agreeable after our split.

Is is not possible for your adult autistic son to come outside and he will take your daughter inside? if he is mobile obviously