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Following porn stars on social media

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probabyinsecure · 07/12/2025 22:36

Would you be upset if you found your oh was following around 50-100 porn stars on twitter.

not sure if I’m being completely unreasonable to feel super uncomfortable about this.its also slightly icky.

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probabyinsecure · 09/12/2025 21:09

AngelicKaty · 09/12/2025 20:59

@probabyinsecure Did he delete Twitter/X spontaneously OP, or did you ask him about the accounts he was following and that prompted a reaction from him?

I found out about them (not snooping). Got upset when I realised exactly how many there was, he had used only fans when younger which he knew my opinion. I honestly thought he had grown up etc. Said I needed sometime to think as it feel like a lot of consuming that type of content. He knew I was very very upset. Sorted out getting baby ready for bed etc came back and he said that he had deleted the app and deactivated his account.

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AngelicKaty · 09/12/2025 21:16

Well, I'm glad you spoke about it to him - I couldn't have let it go either - and it seems it's brought him to his senses, which is good. 😊

Pigeonsandgiraffees · 09/12/2025 21:17

They delete and just get more clever at hiding it.

It would be game over for me as I'd feel like I was dating a teenager with no impulse control - yuck.

He will still wank himself into oblivion to all these accounts; it's a better secret this time is the difference.

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