Hello, never posted here before but I have finally decided to end my marriage. I have been so unhappy for 4 years and it has made me ill (depression) since making the decision I feel relieved, calm and optimistic about the future for the first time in years. The problem is my H he is still in love with me and seems unable to except it is over. I do still care about him but I know there is no way I can stay with him and be happy. He is insecure and so possessive and jealous, and a little controlling. I really believe at times he is even jealous of my relationship with kids, he has undermined and damaged this over the years.My family seem to think I'm mad and that I don't know my own mind that I should reconcider as it will be so hard on my own etc etc. I think all this is giving my H false hope that I will change my mind. I would rather be skint living in a teeny tiny house supporting myself financially and on my own forever but happy than keep the life I have now. Has anyone been through this or have any advice on how to get H to accept what is going to happen. I really want us to stay friends for the kids sake.
Thanks for reading this.