Met someone I really could see a future with after many years of basically being single/ not finding someone I could see long-term with. We are both mid 30s, and we both have had multiple long-term relationships. Both well set-up: good jobs, each own property and a car etc.
I think we are both in a place that if we are sure about each other we will move quite fast, as we know what we want, have learnt a lot from previous relationships, and know how to communicate well due to all of that learning.
I can envisage us moving quite fast, but I wonder how fast is too fast when we are this age. I feel so much clearer about who and what I want after my past - which is why I’ve taken so many years since being single to be willing to commit to someone new, I really wanted to be sure - and I think he is the same. So the question is how fast is too fast? I mean in all things: how much time we spend together, moving in together (I think I’d probably have to move in with him and rent out my place), considering kids (I’ll be 36 next year, we both want kids). I’m not trying to move anything fast right now, just interested in thoughts!