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Can’t get over my ex

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KuromiCat · 30/11/2025 19:59

I know I’m going to get hate for this but I want to be back with my ex, we have children but we’ve been split up years but I just cannot get over him. Ive tried and I've tried but it doesn’t get better. Time doesn’t heal anything.

I did get to a point when I thought I was over him and didn’t want him back but now it’s come back even more intense than ever, I think about him all the time, I dream about him, he is the first thing I think of when I wake up. I thought time would get better but it hasnt, I don’t know if it’s just this time of year making it more intense. I don’t think it’s helped that I haven’t met anyone since him but that’s because I don’t want to even though I think it would help but then wouldnt be fair on the other person as a rebound and I just don’t want to meet anyone else anyway. He came back a couple of years ago telling me he still loved me and I should have been happy but instead it freaked me out and I backed away but now i have come regret it. Is it too late? Can you really go back after years apart?

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landlordhell · 30/11/2025 20:00

What did you break up? Is he with someone else?

KuromiCat · 30/11/2025 20:28

He broke up with me, he was going through some stuff and we were arguing a lot. he might be seeing someone casually I really wouldnt know though we don’t speak about that and I wouldn’t ask, no mentions of anyone significant though.

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