OnceMoreIntoTheBreachDearFriends ·
30/11/2025 15:55
Until earlier this year I'd had a friend with benefits situation with someone I'd known for a long time (but sleeping together for about three years) - it all worked pretty fine for me but I knew he wanted more and over the summer I thought why not...
Big mistake! We might be good as friends but we are a disaster as a couple - too many reasons to go into but I admit I'm far from perfect either - not blaming him totally or me totally but we were just completely not compatible when trying to have a proper relationship.
The last time I saw him was when I dropped him home after a disastrous week abroad which really was the final nail in the coffin. I had paid for the holiday with the agreement he'd pay me in weekly instalments - which continued when we got back. However - one week he didn't pay and I got in touch to ask when I'd get the money and we ended up having a bit of an argument after which he blocked me EVERYWHERE.
The thing is though, I miss him as a friend. I would be happy to go back to how we were, but I get we might not be able to (HRT has finally proved effective too and not going to lie I have a good sex drive for the first time in years!). But I just wish I could get in touch with him and find out...
Any ideas? Or do I just need to move on...