Been with DP 18 years. In these years He was a terrible dad to our dc when they were babies, i would wake up in the middle of the night and he would of disappeared out to parities & friends and wouldnt walk through the door till gone 5/6am.
he begged me to move from my whole support network, my family, extended family & very good friends. He said it would be a fresh start, he was miserable where we lived. I was very recluant to move, it was all I ever knew and i was happy (despite dps ways) i could call on friends and see them, go out, have a life.
anyway, after a year of him begging and his family convincing me We moved and he did change his ways. He was finally a good dad & partner.
I am miserable where we live. I have tried my hardest to make friends, but nothing has really come of it.
His mum passed away suddenly last year (i took care for her so you think he would have some respect for me for it) very unexpectedly and he’s turned back into a pig headed idiot. I can go weeks without any proper adult conversation. I try and talk to him but I get one word answers or just nothiness. Its just about whats for tea, what we need for shopping etc.
My mum recently visited and I reliesed that was the first real adult conversation I had in 6 months!
do i keep trying? He knows im very visibly uspset tonight and hes just ignoring me not even asked. I told him i may as well talk to a brick wall and he’s just said nothing probably thinks im being dramatic. Again. I feel so down, see lots of people getting ready going out on social media and nobody asks me to go out. I try & start conversations but its like nobody wants to talk to me. :(