Is this man suggesting a hook up? 🫤

[juliette2010]

Not an experienced dater but if a man suggested “just come over here for a drink” would you assume he wanted you to just go over to his for sex?
I don’t know if he means “here” is the area he lives or his house.
Been on a few dates for context but we are not close or intimate yet.

Thanks

Don't see the issue, you've had a few assumingly nice dates, maybe he just wants to now meet more personally/privately. If you're not ready just say and meet somewhere else.

First date - no. Several dates - just TALK to him??? If that's a 'no', then the answer is surely NO. (unless you want to). Not judging. xx

Yes, 100%. I've also said that myself to current DP, when we got to the 5th date and I could see he wasn't going to be the one to instigate an intimate date (tbf makes a change from all the guys who were way too fast!)

100% hook up, I learned that through experience!

Yes I would say so. Probably tight with his money too.

Yup. Or worse.

"just come over here for a drink” I would take to mean he's asking you to his house, or very close by, and wants sex.

If it was "How about coming over to X pub in Y town for a drink" then likely a date and not necessarily sex (although can never be ruled out!)