My family use an electrician who went through a break up last year, she sounded a little crazy from what I’ve been told 😅 my auntie asked me if I had any nice friends I could maybe set him up with. I have someone in mind, I think they’d gel really well.
This guy has said to me before about how he gets on so well with my OH etc (builders) because they’re all so similar but this couldn’t be further from the truth. I’ve heard the way they talk about him and it’s not all that nice whereas this guy comes across as the total opposite!
He always asks how how everyone is, is super respectful of our home - takes his shoes off to walk over carpets etc, stops to chat about absolutely anything. He’s only seen my kids briefly a couple of times but remembers their names and always chats to them, even makes a real effort with my 2YO, I’ve never actually known another man to be like it with any of my kids. He just comes across a really lovely guy.
He was over the other day and we somehow got onto the topic of having children and I told him I’d love another baby but I’m too old, so he asked how old I am and told me he’s 36 next year. He then went on to say he would probably meet someone who already had children.
My initial thought was how I have a lot of respect for people who can take on someone else’s kids and be a positive role model in their lives however the more I thought about it, is it a bit strange that he thinks he’d like to meet someone who already had kids? Maybe I’m just overthinking it but he also was asking me questions about my daughters new school (just started high school) where it was, about the bus route, how far from home etc.
Like I say, he’s always come across super lovely and I’ve always liked him but not quite sure what to think. Wondering if I should even mention him to my friend at all, she has a young daughter and I just think you can’t be too careful in this world! Could just be innocent conversation but my brain won’t switch off from it just in case. Any thoughts?