Is there a name for this behaviour and how do you deal with it?

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When you have a disagreement with OH and need some time to get over it but they suddenly decide that they’ll say ‘sorry’ and it HAS to be over then. On their terms and in their time? No matter who is wrong or right or even if nobody is to blame ?
I feel like I’m never allowed to come round in my own time ? When I say ‘no sorry I don’t feel ready to make up yet - I’m still hurt and need some time alone’ they just fly off the handle about how difficult I am.

My ex is an ex for a reason, and this is one of them.

He always used to pull stunts like this about a half an hour before we were due to go out to see friends, or to a party or something. Then he'd be displaying a jovial happy-go-lucky front to everyone else, whilst I was still trying to get over my upset. He'd often whisper things like 'stop looking so miserable ffs' in my ear, just to keep it going, so people at the event thought he was the life and soul of the party and I was a moody miseryguts. Bastard. I should have got rid of him a lot sooner than I did, to be honest.

He now needs to become your ex. Such men do not change,