I am absolutely at the end of my tether, my husband of 13 years has zero respect for me and clearly couldn’t give a toss about me. We have three children and he’s just so selfish and offensive. I’ll never forget him calling me a ‘stupid c**t’ the night before I was due a section with our third child. He now tells me that at most he feels a ‘mild dislike’ towards me and that he doesn’t love me. I feel stupid typing this as clearly I would tell anyone to leave this situation, however I’m worried about the impact on the children and financial implications. He hasn’t had his vehicle MOT’d , so is now out of date, but somehow that’s also my fault that he has no money and I didn’t book it in. The final straw has been that he’s due an operation in a few weeks time and has chosen his mother to take him despite me making arrangements with work and for childcare etc. She is completely on his side and to be honest - a nightmare. Don’t really know what I’m asking, but just feel so sad and alone right now as we work for the same organisation and don’t feel able to be honest with anyone. 😔