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Is he cheating again?

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Sarahami · 20/11/2025 12:15

Hi all, I hope you’re okay. I just don’t know what to do. And my biggest regret is forgiving a cheater and trying to make it work. A lot has happened last year. But I suspect his cheating again. So basically after his cheating last year, we said we will try again and for a while he did better. But now that I’m pregnant I just truly believe his here for convenience. I don’t think he loves or likes me in the slightest. He agreed to delete all socials but Facebook which I said okay. But recently I realised when his in bed his not active on Facebook but if he hears me I can hear him moving quickly and all of a sudden his active on Facebook. His up to something again isn’t he? I’ve also noticed from his old phone google activity that’s linked to both of his phone it says at the same time “used” basically any social media app at “14.06” then it says google play store and the name of the phone he has. But during that time it says his been all the apps like instagram, what’s app, snap. So strange. I know I’m a mug. I know this relationship won’t work.

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Sarahami · 23/11/2025 20:11

Abortion is against my belief! And thank you all. I have no desire to be with him. I just want to raise my children and be at peace. I have done alot of going back and forth. I gave my all. I know some days il miss his presence like today but I reminded myself of the type of person he is. It’s sad but me and the children are better off without him. I keep reminding myself if he loved me or liked me he would never have done what he had done. In time when the dust is settled he can see the kids and have relationship with them. But I feel so strongly right now about my chapter with him is closed. Enough is enough

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Merseymum1980 · 23/11/2025 20:23

Sarahami · 23/11/2025 20:11

Abortion is against my belief! And thank you all. I have no desire to be with him. I just want to raise my children and be at peace. I have done alot of going back and forth. I gave my all. I know some days il miss his presence like today but I reminded myself of the type of person he is. It’s sad but me and the children are better off without him. I keep reminding myself if he loved me or liked me he would never have done what he had done. In time when the dust is settled he can see the kids and have relationship with them. But I feel so strongly right now about my chapter with him is closed. Enough is enough

Im very proud of you so brave

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