So I am at the point in my marriage when I am just trying to make an exit plan. Things were ok and we were working on it, then we had a baby, and it just plummeted. I love my daughter, and she is the best thing to ever happen to anyone, and I wouldn't trade her for anything, not even my relationship, if I am being honest.
In this journey, I have never felt so alone or unsupported. I feel like I have given everything, but his life remains unchanged and unaffected. I have had to give up many things in the best interest of my mental health so I can be there for her, and he has just been focused on all the wrong things. I had actually made up my mind, and I guess without realising, I had started to pull away, and now he wants to try again. I'm not looking for advice on what to do with him, just if it sounds genuine or manipulative, because he can tell I'm about to leave. We have started again so many times and honestly we keep ending up here.