Married 22 years and he used to be lovely. He changed.
I can cope with the multiple infidelity but not the way he speaks and shouts at the children (all teenagers).
One he smashed up all the furniture. My son called the police who turned up. He charmed the male officer with stories of his very macho job (true). They're is no record of this visit.
Social services were not made aware.
School was not informed.
We were arguing and he punched the wall next to my face and said "that's your fault". The next day at church a hand physio clearly didn't buy his cover story and told him it was very like a boxers fracture. I wish she'd pulled me aside.
I'm got a MH problem and disclosed what was going on and they instigated a safeguarding plan for me as a vulnerable adult.
I'm back in hospital now and the session was on anger management. I wrote what was happening on the sheet and have it to the psychologist.
My brother thinks I shouldn't bank on that to be flagged. He thinks I should contact the SG officer.
What should I do?