I met my partner hes 55 and im 51. He proposed to me after 2 months. He promised me the world and i was totally blown away. He said he needed to phone me several times a day because he was insecure from previous relationships. So i did all he asked of me includung not going out with friends. Six months down the line he would rush home and take all his stuff and go back to his mums. Then say he couldnt trust me ! I was there all day every day waiting for him cooking dinner and waiting on him hand and foot. I used to be happy but he made me feel insecure . Last time he went back to his mums hed say to everyone how horrible i was. Then blocked me on everything . He said i should broadcast our relationship on social media and for him to be on mine and he deleted his . When we fell out he went back on his and no trace of me on his . Hed live with me then still pay his mum board i said why did you get engaged and live with me but still pay ue mum ? He said incase we fall out . So last time he left without telling me again he ignored me for 5 days and then i said im moving on and he started realing me in again . He made me appologise for things i shouldnt have its just i missed him and loved him. He said hed give us another go but take it slowly. I said ok and he lives at his mums and stays at mine friday saturday and sunday but goes home to get changed. I find it very difficult after being engaged! He takes his phone everywhere and is very defensive at times over silly things. I really dont know what to do im half the woman i used to be . I cant see any future . In the beginning when we had a bit to drink Hed say things like im going so make you insecure so u know what i feel like and i could hurt you so much but im too nice . He promised to love me and build togeather then lied and turned everyting on me saying he cant trust me and goes to his mums. His past relationships were all the same but i thought id be different .x