Long story short
been with my man for a year we live together and he provides everything for me
i gave up my life for him, but if I did walk away I could go back to my old job and lifestyle so finance isn’t a issue we got no kids together and I’m free and independent
I do love my partner but he’s so cold towards me
when ever I question him he just shuts me down never wants to talk
he only takes it seriously when I say I’m leaving and promises to change but never does
he literally works all the time which is fair enough he’s a entrepreneur and his life is his work
but we see each other a few hours on a evening not even that and he just falls asleep
we barely have sex only when we wants
lucky to have it once a week
he wasn’t like this before considering he still did the same job and responsibilities
but he’s gone so cold so quickly
if we had been married years I get it the spark can die
but after a year I don’t see this normal
i am still the same
i would love to have sex daily if possible
he never wants to kiss me he only kisses me when we have sex
its really gone boring
i feel like he’s turning into more a father figure or a family figure than a partner
he never wants to do anything I find myself doing stuff alone
a day out with him is going up the supermarket shopping
i don’t know what to do anymore
im tired of moaning i probley sound like a grumpy
old hag
every night I’m just awake alone watching tv like as we speak and he’s asleep by 8pm
im starting to think if life would be better alone
i need some excitement im a very social person and have a lot of friends and a really different life before I met him
i am scared to leave because I do love him but he can be really set in his ways and talk to me so horribly and selfish
i do everything for him
cook
clean
iron
I really have become a sit in housewife but I don’t think deep down I deserve this or am I being selfish
I am only 38
all I want is abit of affection but I can’t tell him he said that’s how he is and to deal with it