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Just left an abusive relationship

7 replies

Fumingbutfree · 03/11/2025 00:52

This was a short relationship that started as a good friendship of years.
I ended it and blocked him today.
He made me feel worthless. Shouting, comparing me to an ex, making me feel as though I had no value and saying he didn’t mean it when he said he loved me.
I’ve been in an abusive relationship before and stayed for years, so leaving this quickly feels empowering. I just regret not leaving the first time he began this nonsense.
I’m furious

OP posts:
UpDownAllAround1 · 03/11/2025 01:48

Well done

WhoamItoday11 · 03/11/2025 02:43

Well done, I applaud your strength in recognizing the red flags and getting out quickly.

TacCat49 · 03/11/2025 02:49

Well 👍 👍 👍 done ✅ ✅ ✅.
I'd like to think that I would be as savvy as you.

tiredmumma90 · 03/11/2025 21:01

Well done 👏🏼👏🏼 don't let him worm his way back in

ForLoveNotMoney · 03/11/2025 21:04

Well done, what an incredibly strong person you are. You should be so proud x

ThejoyofNC · 03/11/2025 21:05

Well done to you OP, it can be so hard to make that move but you'll never regret it for a second

TheChosenTwo · 03/11/2025 21:09

You are an incredibly strong human and I’m very proud of you 🥳
I understand your fury and it’s a valid emotion. You’ve made the right decision, no more of your precious time on this earth wasted on a deadbeat. That’s something you’ll feel very grateful for in time to come.
Well done op 💐💐

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