hi all, long story short, my partner of 18 years cheated on me last year and I did chuck him out. I only found out due to the other woman telling me about the affair. He then got poorly and was admitted in to hospital and once he was better he came back home and I wanted to give it ago, however I don’t believe he has done anything to be better person apart from get rid of social media. I feel like I’ve not seen genuine remorse only in the beginning for a few times I did. I feel he doesn’t care about how I feel or making things better. So after sometime. I know someone you on here would say “should’ve left soon as I found out” but it’s easier said than done! I’m now at a point of I do love him and the only person I been with but I dont want to be with him. I want to leave and be free of him, I asked him to move out and he said no he will fix up. I just don’t think anything he says is genuine and I just think he is a liar. For anyone who’s been in my position when did you know it was time and when did you know you have detatched from your partner? I also have 3 children with him and another on the way. My life is just shambles.