I’m done! He’s turned so nasty over the last year, he was struggling with mental health for a while and suggested he stayed with his mom for a few days for a break from me and the kids (1&4) he got so angry and I said I was kicking him out, he cornered me in the kitchen in front of the kids, he screamed in my face, snatched the bottle of lemonade off me and stood on it so it went all up me. I kicked him out that day.
Problem is his mom loves it, she loves that he’s horrible to me and the kids, she was the one telling me that me and the kids are the ones stressing him out hence why I advised him to have a break away.
hes also the breadwinner, has full control of everything, i have nothing I’ve been more or less a stay at home mom now for 5 years. I cant even leave and earn enough to afford my own place with my boys but yesterday he hit with a mop, I know now I have no choice but to leave, my mom was in a abusive relationship, I know this is just beginning, he said he won’t do it again and I need to move on, there is absolutely no way I can’t even look at him, I have a bruise from how hard he hit me, we have been married a month tomorrow.
I have half the equity in the house, which I would get maybe £30k i could get a job 30-40 hours a week, but I wouldn’t earn a lot as I have no qualifications. My plan was to go to uni September next year and do a social work degree I was doing this to protect myself for the future as things have got bad recently and I know I need to do something to earn a higher income for me and my boys.
he’s been a good man to me for 9 years, something this year has changed he’s horrible and completely different person.