Im in a relationship for over two years now and I had to be very patience for the longest time as my partner would only let me see her on Friday evenings. She said she doesnt like people around her and must get used to it meanwhile her neice slept by her every second week for a week at a time. She didnt want to see me more but went to visit some guy fiend of her's.
Time pasted and she slowly let me see her more but not in the week. Only a short time on weekends. Fast forward to some time later she said she cant live with me but moved in with a friend of hers (a family). Eventually close to the 2 year mark she moved in with me.
She only kissed me to greet and say good night, never holds me, never cuddles me, no fourplay, she hardly talks to me, cant confid in me. She says she shows her love by doing things for me, cooking, cleaning and gifts.
Now Im an affectionate person and yes there is no shortage of sex but past that there is no intimacy.
I asked her to meet me half way seen as though I have been patient for over two years and she is just not prepared to give me more affection, confide in me or just work on her life, set goals, have ambition, drive and help me build a future. She goes to work, cooks and cleans and the rest of her time she spends watching t.v. that is literally all she does.
If I bring it up she gets angry. Sleeps in another bed and hardly talks to me. Posts statuses on social media of how she loves me and always will and pictures of herself like she is looking for attention from someone but she is not willing to put in any effort. She keeps saying to me. Leave me then, why don't you break up with me, etc. She must of mentioned it like 9 times in the last two weeks. So I eventually said fine its over then. Now she is milking it and seems to be looking for attention, by who I don't know. What would you do in this situation.