I did it! I left!

[dragonstitcher]

DDs and I left on Tuesday. My parents and a couple of friends helped. I started packing at 6.30am and had everything out by 2pm.

I feel really bad because H is shattered. I couldn't stay with him out of pity though. DD16 has been terrific. She is really glad that we are out and has been a huge support. She has changed so much, turning from a moody teenager into a caring, helpful young lady. DD12 is also glad we are out but is also worried about H. DD8 hasn't said much, apart from that she is happy to move out. She is missing her Dad today and is desparate to see him. I feel bad because I wanted to give the dust time to settle before arranging contact.

((((((hugs)))) dont know your history but just wanted to give you one of these x x

Good for you. Stay strong!

Wow. I hope that this move is the start of much happiness for you and your children. Your H will learn to be happy too.

I don't know your history either, mind. But you should feel so proud that you found the strength to do what you needed to do. It's not easy.

WEll done you, it is so hard in the first few days and weeks, but you have done such a brave thing. Be supportive to your otherhalf but stay strong you will soon look back the see that it is the best thing you have ever done.

Glad you found the strength to do it. Best wishes to you and your DDs

No matter how hard you think ExH is having it, just remember your reason for leaving, don't look back.

Wishing you strength and love x

18 Oct I think Lapin

whoops sorry wrong thread!

Well done DS! I am very proud of you! Stay strong sweetheart xx

Well done! Things will only get better from here.

Well done- you must be very brave to have made this step and well done to your dds for taking it in such a mature way.

Had a bit of a double take moment when I read your post the first time. When I refer to my girls it's usually dd1 and dd2 (referring to their order) You confused me with dd16! My first thought was wow brave woman leaving her DH with 16 children! DOH!

dragonstitcher - well done, I'm really pleased for you. Best wishes for your new life!

Well done - I remember your previous threads and you have had very good reason to leave. I'm really glad you found the strength at last and that your elder daughters are so supportive. DD3 WILL be ok, I'm sure you will give her all the love and support she needs - though she will be upset, and maybe angry, that you have separated - she will need time, but things will be ok. Keep strong, and if you have any doubts, remember we're here to support you.