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YourLivelyLimeFawn · 27/10/2025 02:50

k so ive been with my bd for 10yrs we have 2 little girls.we ran into a financial crisis so we had to sell our house and while we get back on track move in with my mother in law.now this lady is something else, she gets into our relationship gets into my bd head puts me in bad with her family accuses me of things i havent done and dont let it be something going wrong cus its all my fault i dont understand where the animosity because Ive been good to her.she doesnt have any daughters so Ive always tried to be understanding also because i dont have a relationship with my mom I let it go Im tired of walking on eggshells..Am I over reacting

OP posts:
Wherethough · 27/10/2025 02:53

Sounds like you need to move out.

YourLivelyLimeFawn · 27/10/2025 03:02

i dont have family to turn to for help and my resources are pretty much non existent everytime i rrach out to county the give a list with resources most of which have been over since the end of covid.so basically im stuck

OP posts:
Financial · 27/10/2025 03:07

I don’t really understand your second post tbh and you’ve not given specifics in the first.

However, she is providing a roof over your head.

Sleepyandtiredandlazy · 27/10/2025 03:17

Sorry but what does bd stand for?

dogsnuggles · 27/10/2025 03:45

Sleepyandtiredandlazy · 27/10/2025 03:17

Sorry but what does bd stand for?

baby daddy

dogsnuggles · 27/10/2025 03:46

Is it a matter of her house her rules and you don't like it? I'd find a way to get your own place for your family. It's never going to be comfortable when you move into someone else's home. You are the guest, so adapt to her more so than the other way around.

ThejoyofNC · 27/10/2025 03:49

So you've all been living with her rent free for years? I'm not surprised she's fed up.

LadyMinerva · 27/10/2025 04:30

10 years in and he is still your 'baby daddy'? Girl, you got a whole heap more problems than your mother in law.

Tourmalines · 27/10/2025 05:12

Would love to hear her side .

Sleepyandtiredandlazy · 27/10/2025 06:04

dogsnuggles · 27/10/2025 03:45

baby daddy

I did wonder if it was that but as OP's thread title talks about her MiL then I assumed the guy would be her H.

Endofyear · 27/10/2025 08:08

Well you're living in her house so yes, you just have to put up with it. Or move out.

bluebettyy · 27/10/2025 08:45

Move out

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