Ds7 had just come back from football and wanted to show his grandad something before he left. Dashed upstairs to get it and on the way down slipped and fell downstairs. Grandad somehow managed to get his hand to his head before he hit the wall and got away with a grazed knee.
Ds a little sore I'm shaking so we sit down check him over all ok.
Ds asks to go to his bedroom with me, he doesn't want his dad to come in as he's scared he will be shouted at. I continue comforting him he doesn't want to go downstairs for tea because dad will be there, is said he wasn't and we went down for tea . Goes back up as it's getting towards bedtime. His dad came in a few mins later door hits something id moved earlier In the day i I get a what's that doing there. Storms off can hear him muttering in bedroom.
After a few more mins I went into see his dad to say you need to comfort him not tell him off , he said we'll he was was being silly ( never event saw the fall) I said he was not being silly , i get told off for something being out of place in the bedroom and not to tell him how to parent.
I go back to Ds my mum arrives for check on DS and me at which point do comes in and is civil.
When mum left Dp sat with Ds for a chat then I went in to get him to sleep.
do barely speaking to me currently sat in other room but I'm fuming Ds shouldn't be hiding because he's hurt himself and scared of being told off.
He now has a new appreciation for stairs and I'm grateful he's ok and s little shaken and the only person looking out for me is my mum.