How do I tell my DSister I literally do not care about my ex, his life, his new wife, etc?
We broke up about 8 years ago and he still lives in the same small village as my DS.
It was an amicable break up. We have both since moved on and both got married, but on reflection he did have some quite worrying behaviours and I don't particularly like him nor think he is a good person.
The problem is my sister is still weirdly invested in his life and situation, and sort of knows his new wife (village life). She tells me every time she sees him out and about. She tells me every tidbit of gossip she has about him or his new wife.
I try and act nonchalant about it but I don't know how to explain to her that I literally do not care about hearing about him - in fact, I actively do not want to know. Not for any reason other than I have moved on with my life and I don't care about what he is doing or whether or not he has got a new puppy/raincoat/pizza oven.
How do I explain to her that I don't want her to tell me anything without seeming like I haven't 'got over it'?
help!