DH went and bought an airgun I was not happy about this to begin with, especially with a teenage boy in the house.
Anyway at the weekend he and DS (13) lined all my eggs on the fence in the back garden and took turns shooting at them. I needed them for tea but apart from that, it ended with all egg running down the fence and onto the patio. To make matters worse the old woman from next door came around to ask if we knew what all the mess was on the fence (her fence too). DH just said "we were shooting eggs" so she said "well can you make sure you clean it up then". DH said he would but as soon as he'd closed the door he laughed and said he wouldn't.
On monday I came home from work to find that DS had put dog poo on the fence and dared DH to shoot at it and rather than telling him off for being disgusting, he did and it ended with poo being splattered all over the old womans washing in the garden.
She came around again and asked if we had a problem with her or if we wanted to discuss anything with her. She thought we were victimising her I felt awful and aplogised and blamed it all on DS because I was too ashamed to admit DH had been involved. I then felt incredibly guilty about DS all day. Later that night her husband came around and said if anything else upset her from "our side of the fence" he'd start recording incidents.
DH still thinks its funny. Last night DS came in and told me that DH had got a football that was covered in mud and water from the bad rain and offered DS a few quid to kick it at the next doors window.
I went mad and had a huge go at DH who swore DS was lying and he went in a massive mood so now I'm wondering if he did or if DS is playing on the previous incidents.
Please tell me I'm not being a killjoy and i'm not the one being unreasonable here??