So my friend passed my number onto a guy she thought was my type. I said ok fine no issues. He texted me mid September. Usual convo of hi how’s your day etc. we had ONE call a couple weeks ago. No movement since. No date. No nothing. Two Saturdays ago I reached out to say I hope he was having a lovely weekend. We chatted a bit about Netflix series. Him going for food with friends etc etc. then I left it on the note of his message which was
Hey morning.
hope you’re okay
Saturday was good thanks, the restaurant we ate at was fab. It had so many choices and I ate enough to last me.
Hope you are going well and you have a fab day ahead!
to me that warrants no reply. So Saturday this week comes and I was like eff it I’ll ask if he wants to meet. So in turn I got back “heya I hope you’re doing well. Things are ok on my end. Super busy though. I’m back in the area approx 16th November if that works” what the actual fuck… so my friend said. At this point say no that’s too far we’re going in circles either during my annual leave week or we leave it.
can anyone help me. I’m so confused. Yes I’m aware it looks like breadcrumbs. I’d like to give him a chance my friend knows him and said he’s nice etc but this isn’t good. How do you firmly lay it down without being rude.